Celadon Books to publish memoir by Patrick O'Connell

Main, Middle & Gay

A Chef Finds His Place in the World Against All Odds

By Patrick O'Connell
Book cover: Chef sits at outdoor table with two dogs, framed by columns; title reads "Main, Middle & Gay.
Title: Main, Middle & Gay
Author: Patrick O'Connell
ISBN: 9781250436382
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The chef and founder of the Michelin-starred restaurant the Inn at Little Washington gives us an inside look at the tumultuous joys and struggles that have brought him to his special place at the intersection of Main, Middle, and Gay.

World-renowned chef Patrick O’Connell has been recognized as a pioneer of American cuisine; his internationally acclaimed restaurant in the Virginia countryside, the Inn at Little Washington, is Michelin starred and a Relais & Châteaux hotel. Named for the three historic streets in the little town where O’Connell’s life and career have taken root, Main, Middle & Gay chronicles O’Connell’s winding journey through the rough-and-tumble restaurant world. 

Growing up gay in the 1950s and working as a paperboy and a cook at a hamburger joint, O’Connell found his place with other misfits in the addictive restaurant scene, where he learned to be nimble and grew up fast while working long hours and late nights with colorful characters. He lived free-spirited on farms with friends and traveled Europe, teaching himself to cook along the way. When he opened his restaurant in an old abandoned garage, he had no idea it would grow to the heights it has achieved today. In his first-ever memoir, O’Connell shows us the colorful evolution that has led the Inn at Little Washington to become a global destination for foodies and travelers alike.

A smiling chef in a white uniform stands with hands on hips against a black background.
Patrick O’Connell is a self-taught chef who pioneered a regional American cuisine in a rural Virginia village.